Bonobo, Bandra
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When I heard about Bonobo at Bandra and its fancy new concept of ‘Mix-O-logy’, I was intrigued. The review in the papers said that the food was good and the cocktails heavenly. The concept of Mix-O-logy’ was completely new and one could supposedly make one’s own cocktail, pick any ingredient, interact with the bar tender, learn a few tricks and generally have a good time while making their drinks. That itself was enough to get us to try the place.
We decided to go there on a warm sultry April evening and were disappointed to find that it was largely an open air place. There was a small section sealed off in the A/c which was packed with people. The outside, done up tastefully, was still quite sultry and without effective ventilation/ fans was not very inviting.
The initial disappointment overcome and settled in for the evening, we were indeed happy to find a wide range of fresh fruit cocktails on the menu. But the sad part was that there was no one at the bar, besides of course some depressed looking bartenders. The ‘Mix-O-logy’ bar just did not look inviting. There was no one at the bar trying anything. The waiters did not offer any information or invite you to try making your drink at the bar. The new concept was quite downer in reality.
The food was ok. For the starters we had some very nice smoked Salmon. For main course I had some average tasting Bonobo chicken, that is, some char grilled chicken on a bed of mashed potatoes and steamed veggies. Abhi had some pasta, which though tasty was in such a small portion that he was quite put off. The portions of the food were like the one we see on ‘Top Chef’. Tiny miniscule portions, just enough to fill a little tummy space but never the appetite.
The service was nothing to write home about. Actually it was something one can write in one’s review. We were disappointed to find people on the adjacent table smoking away to death. On being asked, the waiter said that they could very well do what they wanted. I tried to point out that smoking in public places is supposedly banned, but the waiter did not care for any general knowledge on my part or for the law. It actually made me wonder if there was any helpline on which such violations could be reported. Does anyone know of one?
All in all, a decent evening… more credit to the company we had than the place. With a bill of Rs 3000 for 3 people, it was a relatively affordable meal, given Bandra standards. Though I don’t think we will return to it in a hurry.
Unaccustomed Earth – An ‘Indian’ Review!
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I had read an excerpt of one of the stories of this book in a literary magazine…..and I quite liked it. In a small dose, the excerpt showed Jhumpa Lahiri as an accomplished writer. Her prose is simple and strong with an ability to connect with the reader on a variety of shared emotions. So when I found the book at a friend’s place (Rupa…! Finally I put your name in a post…. happy?! J), I picked it up with much excitement.
A few stories down and for me the book became a good example of how one must not judge the book by its cover (Also made me recall a sermon my dad gave me long ago on why I should pick my friends after a more careful thought through examination). The first few stories are interesting… one is amazed by her artistry with feeling and describing human emotions. The story telling style keeps one hooked and wondering where its leading… but invariably when one gets there, the end is so mundane that sometime’s one is found wondering if the journey through the pages was worth it.
And it’s not just that… After the first few stories…it gets a little repetitive. One can’t but say ‘Enough with the Indian American Immigrant stories with the Bengali people!’ I like variety when I’m reading short stories…. And this book was a disappointment from that angle. Bengali Parents, Macher Jhol, Misfits in American society, Calcutta reveries, Death and changing relationships… yeah…yeah… we get it.
I know she’s an award winning writer and all, but I don’t have to like the book just because of that.
Reading other reviews on this book made wonder if I lacked some emotional depth that other people seem to have. I didn’t feel any of the much touted ‘gripping emotions’ of human relationships dripping through the pages. One Mr Chanakya warns in his review “Don’t be terribly surprised if you find your eyes moist while reading the book since it actually touches you where it matters the most.” Ouch…. For me after the 3rd story, my eyes were moisting with boredom!
World Without End
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1200 pages in small print…. I knew reading this Ken Follet book was going to be a daunting task. But more than daunting, it turned out to be an all consuming task.
For me books are high involvement items. When I’m reading one, I find myself researching things about it and finding out more about actual events referred to in the book. So after the initial 100 pages, (where I was tempted to throw away the book more the once) the book transformed into a different world that I found myself wondering and researching about.
Set in a small town in UK (Kingsbridge) in early 1300s, the story chronicles the life and times of a cross section of protagonists. Royalty, Peasantry and Clergy…the book shared the struggles and victories of people from different backgrounds and whose lives intertwine through the 50 decades the book covers. The commerce vs the church issues, the basic medical knowledge and treatments, the hardships of peasants, the destruction of the Black Death and the challenges of basic scientific knowledge, made me think about these times in wonder. We take so much of the knowledge and things we have today for granted… its only when we read about these times does one realize that we have so much to thank human endeavor and curiosity for.
I especially found the section on the Black Death intriguing. They made me recall some paintings and models of the plague that I once saw in a museum in Canada. I remember looking at the paintings and wondering about the destruction. Only after reading the book did I grasp the real magnitude of the tragedy. 1/3rd of Europe’s population was wiped out! That’s about 75 million people….
All in all, the book is interesting, a tad long, but worth the time. A book recommended only for the brave hearted.
The Best Super Heroes!
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Writing my review on Watchmen got me thinking about all the other Super Heroes I’ve watched and loved. That gave me this idea of listing the Best Super Heroes according to me and why I like them.
Please feel free to contradict and fight for your hero (In the comments section) in case he/ she don’t make it to this first list. J So here goes…
1. Suuuuperrrrman! (* Drum Roll !!! *)
My front runner and ahead of others by the million miles…Superman has been my quintessential favorite for a long time. One of the first few super heroes to taste screen success, Superman is the ultimate Super Hero. He has super abilities in a multitude of areas. He can fly, has super strength and is the ultimate Man of steel. Ok, I know he could have done with a better costume designer, but hey this was the 1970s. Everyone dressed weird back then!
2. Batman
I’ve always thought of Batman as a Hero who does not really fit the bill of a Super Hero, but that of a Vigilante. In my books, to be a Super Hero you have to have non human abilities, like those of mutants or aliens. But the distinction none the less, Batman makes my cut because he does rise above the ordinary (and the human), albeit with the help of training and fancy gadgets. Dark and weighed down by demons of his own, Batman offers a complexity which gives his character depth. I also especially like that his movies always have villains that come in such great variety and wierdness. (The Joker, Penguin, Riddler, Poison ivy, Dr Freeze etc)
3. X Men
Shape shifting, Telekenesis, Telepathy, Self healing… you name it and X Men have it. Mutants with a range of super powers! With each new movie they unveiled new mutants with new and fascinating powers. The good vs evil aside, I liked them all. I wouldn’t say Wolverine makes my list as the Super Hero no 3, but rather the whole motley Crew of mutants, whether on Professor Xavier’s or Magnito’s side, definitely make my cut!
4. Spider Man
Super Hero he is, but in a Hamlet sort of way. Spider Man seems to battle with himself in a pitiable sort of way…wondering about ‘to be or not to be a hero’. Spider webbing, roof hopping aside, Spider Man is just another kid with girl issues. Yet, he makes my cut because he is still a hero and makes for some interesting movie watching (his various adversaries included!)
So those are the ones who made the first list! Though I can’t wind up the post without a special mention of the other Heroes who almost made the list.
· The Incredible Hulk: Not so much of a Hero, The Hulk is just a poor hunted mutant. What I like about him is the way he throws his arms around and stomps when he is angry! It always makes me smile.
· Iron Man: Love his Suit and the awesome things it’s capable of. Also like Robert Downing Junior J
· Transformers: Autobots rock! I wish my car was one of them.
· Dr Manhattan: My latest addition. Love his omniscient powers, though he’s a little high on the whole human philosophy piece.
Watching the ‘Watchmen’
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Ok, I know…corny title, but I couldn’t help it! I recently saw the movie ‘Watchmen’ (hmm… it’s definitely more fun to say watched the watchmen) and liked it.
And hey, I admit it….As far as super hero movies go, I’m a fan. Not a fan like some of the crazy people on ‘Who wants to be a Super Hero?’ (Where they go trapizing about in spandex going ‘ heeerrreee comes the Fat Momma!!)’, but a fan none the less. I mean there is something so inherently wondrous about having abilities beyond human constraints…it opens up the mind to possibilities and dimensions that one doesn’t usually think about.
Anyways… back to the review. For starters…don’t see it if you don’t like Super Heros. For its Looooong…and if you’re someone who can’t fathom how electrocuting someone can make them blue in colour and give them telekenetic powers, it’s going to be a really long 2 ½ hours for you. But if you’re someone like me… the length of the movie only adds to its appeal. I mean lay it on… I want to see people being teleported to Mars and all the Super Hero action!
Set in the 1980s, the movie chronicles the cold war and how close to nuclear destruction the world came to. After the swinging 60s, the Super Heros have been forced to go underground and when the world needs them, they rise from their ashes and save the world. Yeah… it’s a beaten path, but the execution of the plot with the interlacing stories of the different Super Heros and their pasts makes the movie interesting. Even the dark side of Super Heros is explored and exposed. How can one not hate the Comedian, or wonder about the real personality of masked Rorschach?
The one thing that didn’t satiate my appetite for super powers, was that many of the Super Heroes really didn’t have super powers or this was not adequately covered in the movie. Running about in Spandex and beating up some people doesn’t make the cut for Super Heros (maybe that’s why some people like to refer to them as costumed Vigilantes). But Dr Manhattan made up from everyone else’s inadequacies. Omni powerful, Dr Manhattan could be the ‘Baap’ of all Super Heros! Liked what a news anchor says in the movie, ‘We know that God exists (Ref Dr Manhattan) and that he is definitely American!’ J
Zack Synder’s treatment of the movie is mature. While one might think (being a Super Hero Movie) that it’s aimed at the kids (and the Super Hero Buffs), it’s definitely not suitable viewing for anybody under 18. Overall, I liked the movie and would give is a 3.75 on a scale of 5. For Super Hero buffs, it’s a must see.
Frank Provost Spa and Salon – A Review
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An all day all inclusive package at Frank Provost Spa and Salon in Juhu, Mumbai, was the divinely thoughtful gift that Husband dear decided to present to me for my birthday. I know… it was really sweet! J And it always helps to hint subtly about something you like and then act super surprised when you get it!
So off I went to get 6 hours of intensive pampering. The spa is at Juhu. It is nicely done up place… in a Spaish kind of way…. Artificial water walls, aroma candles, soft music, earthen furnishings et all. It was a tad small, given that one would expect nice open spaces, natural surroundings etc at a Spa… but this is Mumbai, so I guess open spaces are hard to come by.
The day package included a whole bunch of stuff…body massage, sauna, reflexology, pedicure & a facial. The day started with some relaxing music and herbal tea. The long relaxing body massage was really good and by far one of the best massages’ I have had. The masseur was well trained, knew all the stress points and did a patient intuitive job of it. The facial and the pedicure were also nice and definitely much better than what one could usually get at a local beauty salon. The reflexology, though nice, was really not needed after the body massage. So if you’re going for the package, you could leave the reflexology out. The quality of the products is good and the staff is attentive and unobtrusive.
All in all maybe the Rs 4000/- that it cost was a little over the top, but it made a great gift and it was a heavenly way to spend my Birthday!
While I was looking for good Spas to go to in Mumbai, I came across a list of the best Spas in the world. Check out the list. Going to one of them is definitely on my ‘things to do before I die’ list!
Top 15 Destination Spas
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Mii amo, A Destination Spa at Enchantment, Sedona, Arizona |
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Alder Thermae Spa Resort, Siena, Tuscany |
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Les Sources de Caudalle, Bordeaux-Martillac, France |
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Miraval Resort, Tucson, Arizona |
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Canyon Ranch, Tucson, Arizona |
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Chiva-Som International Health Resort, Hua Hin, Thailand |
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Plateau at Grand Hyatt, Hong Kong |
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Green Valley Spa & Resort, St. George, Utah |
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Lake Austin Spa Resort, Austin, Texas |
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Rancho La Puerta, Tecate, Mexico |
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Canyon Ranch, Lenox, Massachusetts |
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Mayflower Inn & Spa, Washington, Connecticut |
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Lodge at Woodloch, Hawley, Pennsylavania |
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Maya Tulum Wellness Retreat & Spa, Pueblo Tulum, Mexico |
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Golden Door, Escondido, California |
http://www.travelandleisure.com/worldsbest/2007/results.cfm?cat=spasdestination
WAR iN PEACE time!
2I got shot 8 times and lived to tell the tale. One can probably never say that in real life…. But with Paint ball all is possible!!
Paint ball is a relatively new phenomenon in India, so some of you might not know what it really is… for those who do know, please skip the next para!
Paint ball is a simulated battle game. Participants are divided into warring teams, given some armour (as in paintball proof vests), face masks, guns and some ammo (as in pellets made of paint). The paint bullets are organic, washable and edible (though please do not try and eat it because they taste horrible… and don’t ask me how I know!). There is a paintball arena, usually it is artificially made with various obstacles… but the one we went to was 100% natural with bushes (some with real thorns!) , boulders and the works. Participants run around, trying to shoot each other, dodge paint bullets and try to keep alive.
There are of course certain rules to the game. Gear to be worn at all times in the arena, no shooting at less than 15 feet range, if you got shot once, you’re dead and you need to raise your hands and walk out of the arena once you’ve used up your ammo (each person gets 20 paint bullets).
But hey, when it’s a bunch of newbies, who cares about the rules! Sometimes people get so excited that they shoot at their own team mates, shoot at near range and generally give the referee a tough time! It’s a little close to the real thing, because paint bullets hit at close range do sting and leave nasty blue black bruises. I thought I got shot 5 times, but as the day passed, I discovered more and more blue black bruises all over the body. So far I’ve discovered 8… J
People hide behind the bushes/ boulders/ inflatable obstacles and mark their preys. It’s a little bit like Quake… hide and shoot…dodge and run…made me want to shout out a gruff ‘Humiliation!!’’ every time I got a close surprised hit!
Its great fun and also a great stress buster! There’s nothing like expending your frustration on all things unfair by rampaging around and shooting anything in sight!
In Mumbai, you can play paintball at Yuyutsa’s (an adventure sports company) arena in Thane (in the beautiful hills of Yeoor). A game of about 20 minutes would cost you Rs 250 and you have to play a minimum of 2.
HR UNPLUGGED GYAN – Tips on how to safeguard your job!
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Recession… it’s like a pall of gloom that is cast over everyone now a days. People are constantly lamenting the lack of business and living in fear of losing their jobs. But hey the sky is not falling yet and there are still tons and tons of jobs that need to be done. Ok, we don’t have too many new ones opening up, but many of the old ones are still there and millions of companies are still in business. So there is really no need to panic and worry yourself insane about losing your job!
Recession is just like a season. It comes every few decades and then it’s gone…. Sales go up, jobs open up and everyone has lots of money. It’s really only temporary. So don’t worry! And I’m here… (J) to offer some HR Gyan that I keep giving to the people who want a little reassurance and advice in these tough times.
So here are some tips on how not to let the recession bug bite you and how you can reduce the odds of you being the next one out!
· Give more than you take - You probably try to do the best you can in your work anyways, but it would be a good idea to ask yourself at the start of each day what you can do better today. In these tough times you have to come off as being more than useful and take on more without being asked! You cannot just do your job and feel that you’ve done your bit. Companies are now looking to maximize returns from every penny they spend. So your output and value to the company should be many times more than the money you take home.
You need to ensure you are performing at levels that are not just expected, but beyond. More is the mantra and you will need to identify which of your unique skills you can leverage to ensure that you bring more to the table. In general, one needs to be a doer, show initiative, innovate, show responsibility, influence others, exhibit the ability to grow and adapt and demonstrate that one understands and impacts the big picture.
· Get some positive face time with your Manager’s Boss (or even higher up!) – If you’re one or two spots removed from the top decision makers, then you don’t need to read this. I probably don’t have any gyan to impart to you since you are already so high up in your organization. But if you’re way down the ladder and wondering if anyone up there knows about you, then read on.
Today it’s not enough to only be a performer… it’s extremely important to also be seen as one. Ok, so you’ve got your appraisal rating to prove it, but when the axe needs to fall, only performance on paper is not looked at. It’s very important to be perceived as a good performer and that too not only by your boss.
If you have a great equation with your boss that’s great! But if he moves or gets axed, will higher ups know about your good work? It’s always a good thing to also get some positive face time with your boss’s boss or even higher up if that’s possible. Show initiative, try and pick up some assignments that get you some cross functional exposure, give presentations, take knowledge sharing sessions, start a new learning trend in your team, research and share industry/ other relevant info on mails to all… in short, do something useful to be noticed by others in the system.
· Improve skills and add some weight to your resume – Like I said earlier, it’s not good enough to be just good enough. So you need to constantly up your game and show that you have the inherent ability to continuously learn and develop. Undergo some training, take on some e-learning courses, get certifications, get a degree or anything else that works for your resume. Getting the added skills and knowledge will hopefully not only help you do your job better, it will definitely help you be seen a someone who can learn, adapt and be ready for the challenges of tomorrow and therefore less likely to get the axe today.
· Have a backup plan – You can do all of the above and more and yet it’s quite possible that your job might be axed. So if it’s going happen after all, it’s going to happen. Don’t take it personally. And don’t worry about impending doom.
You should know in most cases, people are retrenched because there is a lack of business, not because they have not performed. So don’t take it personally. You have skills and experience and jobs are definitely going to come back. See if you can come up with a plan to take care of yourself in the in between times.
If not your job, what else can you look at doing? Look inside yourself and identify unfulfilled passions. There would definitely be areas/ skills you have not explored. See if you can leverage any of them for alternate off the track careers. It’s better to have a plan (however vague) than no plan at all.












